1) He doesn’t have super-close friends.
He has friends; he goes out, but he doesn’t seem to have any buddies who he’s super tight with. He isn’t a friend when his “friends” need him to be one, only there for the good times and never for the bad.
2) He doesn’t make firm plans.
Are you having dinner Friday or drinks on Saturday? You never seem to know because he can never be direct and he never makes a firm plan. Things come up, we get it, but he’s not the only one who has things come up!
3) Things are moving fast sexually.
He doesn’t seem to talk and always has the ability to shut you up in creative ways. Getting intimate is great for a relationship, but so is opening up and sharing your feelings and emotions with one another. If things are going at light speed in the bedroom but at a snail’s pace in all the other departments, you might be in trouble.
4) He says he’s not ready.
But he still wants to hang out with you and “do things”. It’s great to be honest and direct with what you want and don’t want, but you have to be smart in order to not get dragged along a dead end.
5) He seems to be holding back.
It’s a little vague to explain, but things become clear when you encounter such a person. Every time you hang out, there seems to be something missing, like he wishes he could say something but can’t.
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