When it comes to relationships, they say that honesty is the best policy. But is it always wise to share every thought and detail with your partner? After some digging around, we found out there is a list of things that guys prefer to not share with their girls. According to our sources, this is done not because they're hiding things.... but because they don't want to hurt their partner, cause a fight, or are just too shy to share. Here's what they had to say!
1) “Embarrassing” songs in his playlist.
Miley? Taylor Swift? How did those get on there! No, I don’t sing “Bad Blood” in the shower while washing my hair.
2) That he’s self-conscious.
“Do these jeans make me look fat?” is not a thought that only comes up in the female mind. He might be very self-conscious about something, but most of the time he will be too embarrassed to share it.
3) That he’s sick.
This usually depends on the kind of “sick”, but if there are any digestive issues involved he will most likely avoid the topic and never bring it up. In some cases, it’s a more serious topic like a Sexually Transmitted Infection that’s not shared. Which is why it’s always wise to ask your man about it.
4) That he’s broke.
Oh, you want to go out Friday? I actually have plans that night… sorry. If he’s not comfortable sharing his financial situation with you, then he might make excuses like this to cover it up.
5) That you got fat.
This is actually a smart move in order to avoid a fight. Although the word “fat” has a negative connotation, he probably doesn’t mean it in a bad way. It’s just an observation, but he’s smart enough to keep it to himself.
6) That your shoes are ugly.
He knows how you feel about shoes, and he doesn’t want to insult your taste. Especially since he knows how much happiness shoes bring to you, even though he doesn’t particularly understand the relationship.
7) That he likes pinterest.
Who said pinning was to be enjoyed only by women? Manly things can be pinned as well!
8) That he wants you to chip in for dinner.
As much as he loves taking you out and doesn’t mind paying, he would never dare to bring up the topic of sharing or having the girl pay.
9) That he doesn’t know how to do a certain thing, especially if it’s something “manly”.
Society expects men to have a certain set of skills, and if a guy doesn’t have those skills he might pretend like he does until he figures out a solution.
10) That he thinks your friend is hot.
Sarah was it? Yeah, she’s very good looking. Most often than not, he’s not going to act on this thought, but he would never dare to vocalize it.
11) What actually happens during a boy’s night.
There might have been a pit stop at the strip club, but it definitely was not what you think.
12) That he faked it.
It doesn’t mean that it wasn’t good, but he just doesn’t want to hurt your feelings.
Anything you'd like to add to the list? Leave a comment down below!
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