With this reality, women’s lack of sexual desire suddenly makes sense. The sex they're getting is just not that wow. And the theory about women who are married or in committed relationships just don't want to have sex that much loses all credibility. Simply put, if women aren't more interested in sex, it’s because men are just plain BAD AT SEX.
Ask any woman if she comes every time she has sex, and she'll probably laugh in your face. If women climaxed as easily as most men every time they got it on, maybe they'd want to have sex more. But the sad truth is : Sex ends when a man comes.
Why, oh why ???
Come to think of it, porn has had tremendous effects on sexual satisfaction (or the lack of it). Indeed, porn isn’t about reciprocity. Porn scenes usually go like this: Girl gets naked; girl shows off her body for a while; girl gives guy a blow job; girl and guy have intercourse; the end. Rarely in this scenario does the guy reciprocate… So men are being conditioned to seek out sex that is all about them. No wonder then that women have a hard time asking for what they want in bed when the common ideal of "hot" sex revolves almost entirely around a man's pleasure. And no wonder that studies show that 80 % of women have faked it at least once…
So there you have it, gentlemen, numbers show that when women can't get off, you tend to think something’s wrong with them. But the fact is, you are too lazy to put in the effort to figure out how to make your partners climax, or don't care enough to please them.
Now ladies, you have a role to play too : you have to try to communicate what works for you. The best guys will want to figure out how to please the women they're sleeping with. Sure, men who aren't being told what works should ask, because women who believe that men are sexually selfish will be less likely to ask their partner to give them sexual pleasure.
There's more...stay tuned for Part 2 and Part 3!