When I received a video of random acts of kindness, yesterday, I decided to post it on Mondanité’s Instagram page, as I felt that it would do good to people to see something this positive. This morning, I decided to dig further into the matter: what if being kind to others actually the recipe to happiness? Well, it might very well be…


Countless books and articles were written on the subject: what is it that makes happy people happy ? Cultivating kindness, it seems. Studies have indeed shown that people who volunteer or simply care for others on a consistent basis seem to be happier and less depressed. It is called the “Helper’s high”: putting the well-being of others before your own without expecting anything in return stimulates the reward centers of the brain. Feel-good chemicals flood the system, producing a sort of “high”, giving a boost to the giver’s health and happiness.


So if you are feeling depressed or down, have a try at this simple remedy: pay it forward ! Do something nice for someone else, and do not expect anything in return. Your mental well-being will be enhanced.

No need to do volunteering as part of an organized group; it can be as simple as reaching out to a colleague or classmate that looks lonely or is struggling with an issue. Or even giving a compliment, opening a door for someone. By doing so, you’ll experience even greater joy.


If I have convinced you to jump right into being a kinder, more helpful person, here are a few ideas to get you started:

  • While driving, make room for the car trying to enter your lane.
  • Let the person in line behind you at the supermarket with less items go first.
  • Give a genuine compliment to a stranger in the elevator with you.
  • Let go of a grudge and tell that person you forgive them.
  • Be there for a friend having a tough time. Don’t try to fix it, just listen.
  • Buy coffee for the person behind you in line at the coffee shop.
  • Send a positive text message to 5 different people right now.
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