The How-To for Initiating Sex

You’ve got grace, you’re sensual, you’re a guy. You’re a guy! The burden is mostly on you guys to start up sexy times, but this can be changed. It is fast-becoming a women’s world anyway, isn’t it?
While it might be confusing when it’s the right time to bring up intimacy, or what the right way is, taking the lead is a turn-on for almost everyone.
Here are a few pointers:
– Consider setting the mood with dirty talk. You don’t have to start completely filthy; the goal is just to turn the other person on and let them know just what you have in mind after this episode of whatever you’re watching.
– Compliments. Everybody loves them. So don’t be afraid to shower your partner with plenty of them.. As long as they’re sincere, there’s no such thing as too many.
– Sometimes, actions speak louder than words. But, as a reminder, no talking does not mean no consent. You should still be checking in with your partner that they are down for what you’re doing. These are just physical ways to initiate sex that pair well with asking, “Do you like this?” or “I’m dying to kiss you right now.”
– When you ask people around you about how they like sex to be initiated, the answer is often just straightforward. Clear communication. Most would say, “Just ask me,” or “Check in with me as we go.” This is an important part of making sex good for your partner, so don’t neglect it!

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